Heavy lips

I notice that in Malaysia, it is difficult for people to say "thank you" to others. It's not so much that we want to be appreciated by being thanked by others, but rather it's part of our manners when we express our appreciation to others.

From my experience in the UK, the people there are more appreciative of others. When they receive help for instance, they would instantaneously quip "thank you". When they are asked if they want something, they would say "yes, please". When they don't want something, the would respond by saying "no, thank you".

Similarly, the Japanese people have manners that would leave people in awe. They bring good manners to a new level altogether. The phrase "domo arigatou gozaimasu" is seldom forgotten. From the first time you get to know a Japanese beginning with the introductory phrase "hajimimashte" to "dozo yoroushiku", you'll find that the Japanese culture is full of respect and appreciation towards others.

Sadly though, I find that Malaysians have heavy lips. The words "thank you" or "terima kasih" are seldom uttered these days.

I am sure many of us have gone through this experience. At the rate that good manners are being eroded these days, I wonder if there will be any left in the future?